Be Discerning Or Acting With Discernment

How important is learning to be discerning or acting with discernment in todays world? Lets take a look at a particular incident that may well have happened to you. How many times have you been dragged into a situation and then find it going round and round in your head for weeks after. You think to yourself ‘I should have said this, or I should have done that’. It has happened to me many times in my life. And I have wasted weeks, if not months at a time, on such conundrums.

I am now coming to the realisation that I have not been true to myself. Being highly sensitive usually means you have a deeper insight into life, and this can sometimes take you to places where you don’t need to go. But because we have so much empathy, our hearts take us into situations we should not be in.

Mastering Discernment

In the Tao lectures I went to for many years training to be a Dahn Master, we learnt five words to live by. These words will help you live a life full of discernment. And these are the words.

Integrity – Diligence – Responsibility – Courteousness – Trust

Being diligent is like learning to be discerning. It means you are paying attention to what is happening on a deeper level and you can see through what is happening and why it should not be any of your business, unless you want it to be. We get dragged into other peoples mess all the time, and it is time to stop that because it brings heart ache and pain.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. That is what we were talking about in one of my coaching sessions the other week. That is, you help the people who swim towards you, as they want to be helped. And you have to be discerning here too. You have to work out are they just around you for attention, or do they actually want your help.

Lines Are Being Blurred All Around You

And if they are around you just to be friends and nothing else. Then they don’t want your help. They are looking for friendship. As we are being dumbed down by our education system and the mainstream media, everything seems to be getting blurred, and people cannot see the woods for the trees. It is time for that to end.

As a highly sensitive human being, you have a more in tune nervous system, and see reality on a much deeper level. You have a deeper intuition than most, and can see the woods for the trees. You can see when someone genuinely wants your help, and when they are playing with what they perceive to be a weakness of yours.

Narcissists do tend to hover around highly sensitive people because they feel we are weak because we are affected by emotions, feelings and these whirling thoughts I talked about earlier. When we learn to be the master of our emotions, feelings and thoughts, life takes on a whole new meaning.

You Can Enjoy Your Feelings And Emotions On A Much Deeper Level

We can still enjoy those intense feelings of joy, wholeness and completeness on a much deeper level. But we learn when to protect ourselves and when to stay out of a situation that is going to be harmful for us.

I came through what was called a good education system. But I never learnt the life skills to make me a sovereign being, free from the illusory world of Mia. We are living through the lifting of the veil, where all the mystery school teachings are there for us to learn about now in this time in history.

Getting Past Heavy Conversations

And as highly sensitive people, we get them on a deeper level. I love the discussions I have now with people, because I am getting past the heavy cumbersome conversations about the matrix and all the bad things happening in it. Surely as highly intelligent beings, we can create the opposite of what we don’t want. That feeling is growing, so start putting your intention into what you actually want, not what you don’t want.

Learning to be discerning is such an important aspect of life. I hope I have given you something from my take on it. I am sure you will have a clear insight into this if you spend some time contemplating this subject. See life for what it is. A beautiful experience, where you have the opportunity to shine like the star that you are.

Do You Need Help With Your Highly Sensitive Nature?

I have created an online course called the Dream Method. It is a one to one coaching course with an online programme that runs alongside the coaching. This is designed for highly sensitive people, empaths and intuitives. Click the link below for the free training and see if this training resonates with you.

The Dream Method

I look forward to connecting with you in my next post.

Until then, be well and keep shining.

Peter.

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